Katie Maloney Open about his separation from Tom Schwartz During a recent podcast interview.
Following confirmation of her and Tom’s breakup in March, which came in the form of a separate and very emotional statement shared on Instagram, Vanderpump rules The cast member reveals that he is tired of the way his now-divorced wife is being treated.
The 35-year-old Bravo star admits that her divorced husband’s inability to change influenced her decision to leave the marriage.
“You sit around and wait for someone to start behaving differently or act correctly. And then that’s right, why am I sitting, hoping and waiting for something like that?” Katie shared the latest episode of Favorite Media Relationship with Kami Crawford, Through e! News.
“It started to feel very disrespectful to myself,” he continued. “For example, this kind of behavior is harmful to me, and nothing has changed. When my behavior was destructive and harmful to the relationship, I joined them because God forbid that I destroy this relationship which is very important to me.”
Because Katie has done so much to work on herself and keep her 12-year relationship intact, she didn’t like the thought of ending her marriage.
“I did not marry this man because I wanted to divorce him in the end,” she said. “At one point we were trying to start a family. That was our common goal … but then I wondered, what did I do for myself? What am I getting out of it? Is my need being met? “
And apparently, they weren’t.
“My confidence was damaged, and I was feeling very insecure,” Katie continued. “It simply came to our notice then. I thought he was choosing the room before me and everyone else in his life. “
Although Katie and Tom’s marriage is over, Katie says that the two are still working together, which became clear when they appeared last week. Stacy Schroeder And Beau ClarkHer marriage in Italy.
“We still do things together,” Katie confirmed. “Some of our friends have the same group, and we have dogs that we will take care of separately … He is my family, and I will always love him, so our friendship is very important to both of us. “
Regarding her decision to go public with their breakup, Katie said she was asked to do so after noticing “rumors and gossip”.
“It simply came to our notice then [keep] All that is between us only before we reveal something, then, on a necessary basis, friends and family. But it just started out there. So we went to Instagram then, ”he revealed.
“I was really uncomfortable and I got all sorts of anxieties when all these things were swirling around,” he added, via US Weekly. “I don’t like people talking about me and saying things that may not be true. I don’t like it, so we had to take control of that narrative. “
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